How it works
Anonymously compare kink interests with a partner. Only mutual desires are revealed.
1. Select
Browse categories and mark each item Yes, No, or Maybe. Only mark what matters to you.
2. Share
Get a unique code. Send it to your partner — they fill out their list independently.
3. Discover
Once both are done, only your mutual yeses are revealed. Everything else stays private.
FAQ
What happens to my data?
Nothing is stored permanently. Sessions live in temporary memory and expire after a short time. We never write your selections to a database.
How long do codes last?
Codes expire after 24 hours or once both partners have submitted — whichever comes first.
Can my partner see what I marked?
No. Your partner only ever sees items you both marked Yes or Maybe. Individual answers are never shared.
Do I need an account?
Never. No sign-up, no email, no tracking. Just a temporary code between you and your partner.
Is this really private?
Yes. The server only stores a temporary hash of selections. There is no way to link a session back to a person.