Kink Lexicon
Browse our comprehensive guide to desires, sensations, and practices. Learn what they are and how to explore them safely.
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24/7 Lifestyle
Dominance & SubmissionFull-time power exchange dynamic beyond scenes.
ABDL
Kinks & FetishesAdult baby/diaper lover—age regression, diaper wearing.
Age Play
Kinks & FetishesAge regression dynamics (Daddy/little, Mommy/little, etc.).
Anal
PenetrationPenetration with penis, toys, or objects.
Being Dominant
Dominance & SubmissionTaking control, giving orders, directing the scene.
Being Submissive
Dominance & SubmissionYielding control, following directions, surrendering.
Being Tied
Rope & BondageRestrained with rope as the bottom.
Belting
Spanking & ImpactUsing a belt or strap for firm impact.
Blindfolds
Sensation PlayDepriving sight to heighten other senses.
Breath Play
Edge PlayChoking, breath restriction, gas masks.
Bruising/Marking
Spanking & ImpactIntentional marking as part of play.
Bukkake
Group PlayMultiple people ejaculating on one person – often a focus of fantasy.
Caning
Spanking & ImpactThin, flexible rod for sharp, stinging sensation.
Captor/Captive
Roleplay / FantasyKidnapping, interrogation, rescue fantasies.
CBT (Cock & Ball Torture)
Edge PlayGenital torture—constriction, pressure, impact, or sensation.
Costumes & Uniforms
Roleplay / FantasyDressing up as specific characters or archetypes.
Cropping
Spanking & ImpactShort, stiff crop for precise strikes.
Cuckolding / Hotwife
Roleplay / FantasyWatching a partner have sex with someone else, often with humiliation.
Deep Throat
OralFull penetration of throat.
Dildos
PenetrationVarious shapes, sizes, materials for penetration.
Doctor/Patient
Roleplay / FantasyMedical scenarios, examinations, uniforms.
Double Penetration
PenetrationSimultaneous vaginal and anal penetration.
Electrical Impact
Spanking & ImpactTENS units or estim for shocking sensation during impact.
Electricity
Edge PlayTENS units, violet wand, estim for shocking sensation.
Exhibitionism
Roleplay / FantasyBeing watched or observed in intimate situations.
Face Sitting
OralPartner sitting on face, weight borne by sitter.
Face/Body Slapping
Spanking & ImpactOpen-hand striking on face, chest, thighs, or other body parts.
Feather Tickling
Sensation PlayLight, teasing touch with feathers or soft objects.
Feet
Kinks & FetishesWorship, tickling, smelling, licking.
Fingering
Hand PlayManual stimulation with fingers internally or externally.
Fisting
Hand PlayInsertion of entire hand.
Flogging
Spanking & ImpactUsing a flogger with multiple tails for thuddy or stingy sensation.
Gangbang
Group PlayOne person (typically the focus) with multiple partners sequentially or simultaneously.
Giving Oral
OralPerforming oral sex on a partner.
Handjobs
Hand PlayManual stimulation of penis.
Humiliation
Dominance & SubmissionVerbal or physical degradation play.
Knife Play
Edge PlayBlunt blades for sensation, fear, or edge play.
Latex/Leather/Rubber
Kinks & FetishesMaterial fetish—wearing or touching specific textures.
Mummification
Rope & BondageFull body wrap restricting movement.
Needles
Edge PlayPlay piercing—temporary insertion of sterile needles.
Object Fetishes
Kinks & FetishesBalloons, nylons, clowns, or other specific objects.
Objectification
Dominance & SubmissionBeing treated as an object, furniture, or property.
Orgy / Group Sex
Group PlayFour or more people engaging in sex, often in a free-form setting.
Paddling
Spanking & ImpactImpact with solid surface—wood, leather, silicone, or rubber.
Pain Play
Edge PlayGeneral intense sensation play.
Pet Play
Kinks & FetishesPuppy, kitten, horse roleplay.
Plugs
PenetrationButt plugs worn during play or alone.
Pressure Points
Sensation PlayFirm pressure on specific body points.
Receiving Oral
OralReceiving oral sex.
Rope Harnesses
Rope & BondageBody harnesses for aesthetic or anchor points.
Rope Restraint
Rope & BondageSimple ties for hands or feet.
Self-Tie
Rope & BondageTying yourself solo.
Sensory Deprivation
Sensation PlayHoods, earplugs, complete sensory isolation.
Service
Dominance & SubmissionActs of service—domestic, personal, or ritualized.
Shibari
Rope & BondageDecorative/artistic rope patterns.
Spanking
Spanking & ImpactRhythmic striking of buttocks with open hand.
Stinging Nettle
Spanking & ImpactPlant applied to skin for burning sensation.
Stranger Encounter
Roleplay / FantasyMeeting as strangers in a bar, park, or other setting.
Strap-On
PenetrationWearing or receiving with harness and dildo.
Suspension
Rope & BondagePartially or fully lifted off ground.
Swinging / Partner Swapping
Group PlayCouples exchanging partners or engaging together with others.
Tawse
Spanking & ImpactSplit-leather implement for thuddy/stingy impact.
Teacher/Student
Roleplay / FantasyAuthority figure and student dynamic.
Temperature
Sensation PlayHot wax, ice, cold objects on skin.
Threesome (FFM)
Group PlayTwo women, one man – any combination of activities.
Threesome (MMF)
Group PlayTwo men, one woman – any combination of activities.
Threesome (MMM / FFF)
Group PlayThree men or three women.
Tying Someone
Rope & BondageRestraining a partner as the rigger.
Vaginal
PenetrationPenetration with penis, toys, or objects.
Voyeurism
Roleplay / FantasyWatching others in intimate situations.
Watersports / Golden Showers
Kinks & FetishesUrine-related play.
Wax Play
Edge PlayDripping candle wax on skin.
Whipping
Spanking & ImpactSingle-tail whip for intense, focused sting.